FWIW, it is correct that the TomTom shows up as a LAN device (like a NIC card). It's actually functioning as a little micro-server.
Next - is that Belkin router hardwire connected to a cable or DSL modem, or ???
Next - what else is connected to that Belkin wireless router, either by wire or by WiFi?
I'll confess to being clueless about this disconnect business. While I fully understand what is being reported by several users, I have been using the MyTomTom software with my GO1535 on my little Asus netbook (WinXP SP3) via a WiFi connection without issue since July of this year. I'm beginning to think that if we are to make any progress on this at all, it might be necessary to evaluate each environment in a fair bit of detail. Hard to know just where to start, though.
Discounting the Mac users for a moment (similar symptom, but uniquely Mac cause), we've seen complaints by XP, Vista and Win7 users, haven't we?
There are only two reasons for a machine to have two NIC cards - which is how it appears to a PC when you plug in a MyTomTom based device. One is to provide access to two networks to the machine, and the other is to create a bridge between two networks. What we do NOT want is the latter. Any communication between the two 'networks' in this case should be handled exclusively by the MyTomTom software.
So I suppose one place to start is the NIC configuration to be absolutely sure that the PC doesn't think we're in 'bridge' mode.
Right click "My Network Places" and select "Properties"
Plug in the TomTom (and watch the WiFi LAN icon develop a red X, I assume)
Your TomTom LAN icon will appear as "Local Connection x" (some number)
Right click the TomTom's LAN "Local Area Connection x" icon
ATTEMPT to select "Bridge Connections" (but if it allows, don't do it!)
You should get an error during that attempt!
Again, right click on the LAN icon for your TomTom
Select "Status"
Select the "Support" tab
What do you see there for the IP Address and Subnet Mask fields?
It should be reporting back 169.254.255.2 and 255.255.255.252
Click on the "Close" button
Now, let's look at the specifics of the WiFi connection (even though dead)
Please right click on the WiFi LAN icon
Select "Properties"
Above, you will see "Connect using..:" box with a "Configure" button to the right
Click on the "Configure" button
Click on the "Advanced" tab
Slide down to the "Radio On/Off" item. What "Value" appears in the upper right? Should be "On"
Click the "Cancel" button
Right click on the WiFi LAN icon again
Select "Repair"
What happens? If possible, get some help writing down the messages. If you don't get them all in the first attempt, hit the "Close" button, and repeat the steps in this paragraph again.