Well, I think I might be flummoxed.
But it will really help us (maybe other people!) to help you, if, when you make each reply, you can answer the questions asked in the previous one.
You STILL haven't said whether you have
1. made a backup
2. then removed all the loose files on the XL (leaving the folders alone)?
3. Emptied that
download/complete/program folder on the PC?
If you can confirm that you have done those things, AND it will still not update using Home then we can move onto trying a manual install of the software. But we can't do that if you can't get those tasks to happen.
To take things in reverse order:
so not to confuse things, tomtom no 1 was writing to the disk, but it wasnt happening, then it came back as a null from the server
That does confuse me.
Does that mean you tried my test of writing ANY file to it, and it was successful?
If so, what wasn't happening?
What do you mean by "it came back as a null from the server"?
Please can you write your replies as if you are talking to a complete novice, write down EVERY step you make and say exactly what the actual error messages you see are.
Any screen grabs you can make and post up will be a great help.
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I really don't think we should move on to the SECOND machine you've bought yet, that will just confuse things even more, although I'm REALLY intrigued by where you say
It telsl me to create a new account for the new tomtom, and then says all info will be lost, and no chance of recovery at all,
I've never, ever, seen a message like that in TomTom Home. A photo or screen-grab of it would be great.
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I'm based in London UK, why?